Last year my mother had valve replacement surgery. A surgery which should have had her home in 5 days turned into a 10 day hospital stay and then a three-week rehabilitation at a local convalescent home.
The rehabilitation facility we choose had just opened their new cardiac wing and mom was probably the third or fourth person admitted. My mom did not want to go to a “nursing home” because back when she was a child, that is where the older folks went and more than likely they didn’t come home. We did our best to reassure her that we were not sending her there to die, just to get well and strong enough so I could manage her care at home.
Even with daily visits from my sister and myself, mom was very lonely. One day I had the thought to ask if the dogs could go in for a visit; the nursing staff agreed immediately; as long as the dogs were well-behaved. 🙂
Needless to say, it was a fairly rough month for me, with going back and forth to the hospital and then daily trips to the convalescent home. It was also a confusing time for Sampson and Delilah because I wasn’t home a lot and when I was home, I was a bit stressed so bringing them with me was a win-win.
Saturday morning Hubby and I loaded the dogs in the car and headed off to the convalescent home; where mom was very excited to have some furry visitors.
The dogs were very well-behaved and charmed everyone who met them; we even got to take mom outside to the courtyard to enjoy a bit of spring sunshine.
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