Delilah’s on board
For the longest time I was leaving Delilah with Hubby while I took Sampson for his morning walk, but last week Hubby had to leave early for some blood work. I felt bad leaving her sweet little face and I was feeling my oats or something and figured what the heck? I hooked her up and took her with us.
I have to say, she’s on board with the morning walk. She is SO good (most days) just walking slowly along. It’s like she understands that Sampson cannot move quickly, most morning she just walks sedately along beside him.
Sampson’s a Dillwad
So I mentioned before that Sampson is on a harness to help with his pulling. It works fine, until he sees someone or something he loves and then nothing will hold him back.
One of our neighbors across the street is an older woman with MS. She absolutely adores the dogs and when she sees me out with them and she’s out, she calls us over.
Sunday night I was taking Sampson for his walk and I heard her call me and then she said, “Hi Sampson!” Well that was it, he was a dog on a mission and dragged me over, jumping and lunging in his quest to get to her.
Since then he’s been a little gimpy on his leg. ERRR!!!
Let it Go
Sampson was scheduled for his last therapy appointment last night. I called yesterday morning and confirmed the appointment. In order to arrive on time I needed to leave work at 3:45. I cleared it with my boss.
At 4:30 I looked at the clock and about lost my mind. I flew out the door calling the vet on my way home. My appointment was for 5:00 and they were closing at 6:00. I had my choice of arriving late and only getting a partial therapy appointment or canceling my existing appointment and rescheduling. Once I found out there was no penalty for canceling I determined it wasn’t worth risking my life or Sampson’s to try and get there during rush hour.
I was beating myself up pretty badly when I got home, telling Sampson what a horrible dog Mama I was. I had received a delivery essential oils so I took out some Abundance, rubbed it on my wrists and took a couple really good sniffs. I stopped crying and decided my missing the appointment was either the Universe’s or my brain’s way of telling me either Sampson or I or both of us, needed the break. I took Delilah for a walk.
The Sweetest Thing
I saw this posted yesterday of the Lab Rescue page I belong to. It was written by a little girl who was picking up her dog.
Is that not the sweetest thing ever?
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Frankie and Ernie says
Maybe it was a GOOD thingy that you missed our appointment, Sampson. That way you will have your treatment LATER and it may do you MORE good.
We think it is very much NICE of you to be excited about visiting with your neighbor lady. It must be wonderful fur her to have some time with YOU. Sorry that you hurt your leg getting to her though.
Molly The Wally says
Don’t be so hard on yourself. Things happen and we are sure all will be OK. You both have had a hard time of it. Sending hugs and try and take it easy. Have a tremendous Thursday.
Best wishes Molly
lauranne says
What a lovely poem!! I wouldn’t be too hard on yourself, it happens to everyone. Just take a little me time, I think you could do with a break. Deep breaths and open a bottle!!
Genevieve says
In perspective, rescheduling the appointment may have been a good call in so many ways. A few more days to strengthen naturally, a chance to do a fraction more in the therapy, a much needed break, and of course – the not getting killed in traffic part. Yeah. Good call.
Sand Spring Chesapeakes says
That first picture is great how nice that they walked so nicely together. Don’t fret over the missed appt there is always another day and best to be safe and not rush. That little girls writing had me in tears.
Callie, Shadow, and Ducky's Mom says
Aw, that little story is sweet! Pretty much describes the way I feel about my pups — past, present, and future!
One of the wonderful things about our furry companions/kids is the way they “let it go”. We could all stand to learn from them! I’ve had my own moments — similar to yours — where I’ve just felt awful about something connected with the dogs and had to cry it out. But that cry-fest is what helps me put it behind me. That, and a big, slobbery kiss from whichever dog I’ve wronged.
And don’t worry too much…with a little rest, Sampson will be walking fine again. The gimpy-ness is just a sign that he over-exerted himself and needs to slow down. Callie and Shadow do the same thing. (Ducky just flops over on her side, fast asleep.)
Jan K says
That IS the sweetest thing ever!
I remember one time the vet’s office actually having to call us and tell us we were supposed to be at an appointment…I don’t remember what it was for but I certainly felt like an idiot. So it happens to everyone.
I’m sure there will be times when Sampson overdoes it a bit and has a slight setback. I’d imagine it’s all part of the process….it really looks like overall he is doing well…..the fact that he doesn’t let it slow him down every time seems like a good sign to me!
Callie, Shadow, and Ducky's Mom says
PS. Love that picture of Delilah standing/walking so calmly next to Sampson! They DO know when something’s up, not quite right, and they know to pace themselves accordingly. Great job, Delilah!! And Mama for giving her the chance!
Dogs N Pawz says
I love that poem! It is awesome! I wouldn’t beat myself up about missing the appointment. S___ happens and sometimes we just can’t control it no matter how hard we try! Have a great day!
slimdoggy says
One missed appointment isn’t going to make or break Sampson’s recovery. Give yourself a break.
Jenna,Mark “HuskyCrazed” Drady says
That was so sweet, what that little girl wrote!!!
Sorry to hear that Sampson’s leg is bugging him after that. And don’t beat yourself up about that appointment. You are doing an amazing job caring for him!!
Have a great afternoon!
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Mary says
I am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. You have to just go with the flow sometimes. (I’m sneaking in on your blog hop linky, just making sure everything is working)
weliveinaflat says
Gets frustrating when something doesn’t work out. Time to take a breather and tomorrow will be all sunshine again 😉
Emma says
Mom has a great trick to make sure she never misses important things. She sets her phone alarm for 5 mins before the time she needs to leave. When it goes off she remembers she has to get moving. So far it works like a charm. Maybe give that a shot if you are busy and think you might forget.
Flea says
You’re such a good mama. And the good mama needs to care for herself. I’m glad the oils came when they did. 🙂
Hailey and Zaphod says
I am the same way, I beat myself up for “human” mistakes. We often set expectations way to high for ourselves. We need to remember we are human and the world will not end if we have to reschedule. I hope you enjoyed your time with your pups and have a great weekend.
Bailey says
What a beautiful poem. Who can help being excited by people who love us. Sometimes love hurts. :0) It sounds like he is a special friend to your neighbor and that is great.
jan says
According to Freud, anything we forget is done on purpose. (I’m paraphrasing) So maybe it is all for the best. Our subconscious minds may know more than the conscious mind.
My fee for this session will be waived. 🙂
Daisy says
Like others, I believe everything happens for a reason as well. I’m sure it was best that you missed the appointment, and missing one appointment won’t make any difference. Heck, I’ve missed my own appointments! Though I know it always feels worse when we miss things for those we care for than when we miss them for ourselves.
retro rover says
that is very very sweet
retro rover
2 brown dawgs says
That is a wonderful picture of the two of them walking together.
Hey don’t feel badly about your missed appointment. Happens to all of us. One time I made an appointment to have a recall done on my car. I think I made it two or so days before I had to take it in. On the day of the appointment I totally forgot about it until like an hour and a half after I was supposed to drop it off. Oops. lol