I have a figure of an African-American man hanging from the window in my sports memorabilia area. He is not hanging there because of his race. No he is hanging there for what he did. Yes, the hanging piece of human filth is Michael Vick replicated in the form of a chew toy.
Michael Vick, star quarterback for the Atlanta Falcons, arrested and jailed for running an illegal dog fighting ring.
I try really hard in my life not to be judgmental, to try to see things from the other person’s perspective. I don’t have insight into the experiences that made them who and what they are.
When the Vick scandal broke I tried to see it from a different perspective. Michael Vick grew up in Newport News, Virgina in the projects. He was exposed to dog fighting at an early age. I can buy that, but once you become an adult you need to own your own.
Once I had rectified this in my mind I, like millions of others was outraged. I heard someone made a dog chew toy so I ordered two. There was such an overwhelming response; that it took over eight months to receive my toys.
I promptly gave one to Delilah who enthusiastically chewed off his feet and made some nice bite marks in his head. Delilah who but for a twist of fate, may very well have wound up as a bait dog for a dog fighting ring.
Once I took it away, from Delilah, I tied a piece of string around his neck and hung him. Just what that bastard deserved, I thought.
Well we all know what happened to Michael Vick, he did 21 months in prison, was fired by the Falcons, filed for bankruptcy, came out of prison and signed with the Philadelphia Eagles.
I couldn’t forgive him.
Anytime anyone played the Eagles I screamed, “Sack that piece of scum.”
“Hurt him, pick him up and slam him to the ground.”
Even the New York Giants whom I totally can’t stand were encouraged, “Sack, sack the quarterback.”
And I ranted to Chet, “I can’t believe he’s starting for the Eagles.” “I don’t want him to do well.” “I want him to pay.”
“How much more do you want him to pay?” Chet asked.
“I don’t know, I just hate that he comes out of jail and goes right back to playing football, making millions of dollars and it seems so effortless to him.”
I bring this up today because when I signed onto the internet this morning I found out that Michael Vick is lobbying Congress for anti-dog fighting laws. Specifically laws which make bringing a child to an animal fight against the law.
Michael, you have my attention.
“”The law would impose penalties of up to a year in prison and fines for attending an animal fight, and a penalty of up to three years in prison and fines for bringing or allowing a minor to attend.”
The Humane Society has partnered with Vick ( Yes The Humane Society!) Although they say they did a lot of soul searching as to whether they could actually work with him.
Then it struck me, if Attila the Hun rose up from his grave and asked me to team up with him to stop these barbaric events, I sure as heck would partner with him. If I could save one dog from fighting or being used as bait, if I could prevent one child from continuing and contributing to the barbarity of this “sport” yeah, I’d be cozying right up to ole Attila.
Ultimately I believe we all answer to a higher power and if God could forgive Michael Vick, then why can’t I? The fact that he is trying to make amends is commendable.
Am I saying that I like Michael Vick?
I don’t think so.
Am I saying I would sit down and chat with Michael Vick?
Maybe.
Am I saying I can forgive Michael Vick?
I’m not really sure it’s my place to offer forgiveness, but I am willing to give him a chance and see what transpires from this venture.
What I am saying is this, maybe just maybe Michael Vick’s real legacy will be not what he has done, but what he has yet to do.
impala6 says
My heart aches at the thought of someone hurting an animal. My only hope is that his redemption is earnest and lifelong – it appears to be genuine.
Remember, forgiveness is really the gift you give yourself. 🙂
Jodi Stone says
Thanks George! I really hope he is sincere.
2browndawgs says
I don’t understand how anyone can find pleasure in watching animals fight. I guess time will tell whether MV is sincere. I hope so.
Jodi Stone says
I can’t either. We love to watch them when they are “wrestling” but if anyone even yips, it’s over. I can’t see how someone can watch something so brutal. But then Spain has the bullfights and people love that too. Sick.
Dawn Nardone says
Nice job Jodi…. I remember that day …you were so upset….glad you seem to be dealing with it….
Jodi Stone says
Thanks Dawn! I truly hope he is sincere. That will go a long way in my book in his redemption.
Patty says
Great post. I really hope he is sincere.
Jodi Stone says
Thank you, I do too.
Kristine says
It’s not my place to decide whether this man is speaking from a place of honest regret or being nudged by PR agents. Really, it’s the end result that matters most. While I will never consider Vick a hero, I do hope the world can learn from his mistakes.
Jodi Stone says
I agree Kristine. I hope he can do some good in this world after all the bad he has done.
Big Al says
Fascinating post Jodi.
I am a life-long Eagles fan and dog owner. I too cringed when I heard he was going to play for them. However, right from the beginning he has shown what appears to be sincere contrition. More importantly, he owned up to what he did. So many athletes today find fault with everything and everyone else for their predicament. I really think this may be one of those rare (and I do mean rare) cases when someone is moved to make amends to everyone that was offended.
I hope he pursues this law to successful passage. He will be remembered for that long after we have forgotten about his athletic skills.
Jodi Stone says
You are so right! He seems sincere and I hope he is. He can leave behind something far greater than awards and records.